Nowday, not only an adult man and woman who did a free sex but either did teenagers, in the other words a young man and young woman. Even, most of teens in Europe have ever done it, especially in America because free sex is being such their hobby, a hobit to be exact. So what about you? Have you ever done free sex? Once or twice or more may be? If yes, so you’ve made a serious mistake in your life and you will get how dangerous it is soon after you’ve got the consequence of it. Free sex is very dangerous especially for a teens like us.
Teens is the period where children develop to be adult. In this period, teens search their identity. They search what lifestyle that suitable for them. Nowadays, many teenagers try to do something that they regard it suitable with them. Free-sex is one of wrong life style that chosen by teenagers but they do not know the effects of it. The effects of free-sex can damage the teenagers’ life and future.
There are several effects of free-sex for teenagers. First, pregnant before marry is the common effects of free-sex. Teenagers are student age so that they do not ready to get baby in their age and their status. This problem will address them to do abortion. Abortion will threat their life.
Second, sex diseases will threat the teenagers healthy. It can be gotten by male and female. Female will get sex disease such as herpes and female will get disease such as uterus cancer.
Third, lost of the future will shade the teenagers life every time because their life had done to wrong activity. In environment, they will get different view. They are regarded as the unsuccessful human.
Free-sex is the wrong choice for teenagers. Teenagers should keep their self from the free-sex lifestyle. There is needed role of family to help teenagers avoid that lifestyle. The effects of free-sex can damage the teenagers’ life and future.
*** The Cause Of Free Sex?
There are several reasons that can justify the outbreak of "terrible plague" was, among which are :
1) Negative Influence of Mass Media
Masssa media such as television, movies, newspapers, magazines and more recently put forth and show the pictures adegen Nudity and sex as well as a glamorous life away from religion values. This is reinforced by the development of internet technology through national boundaries and time which enables young people to access the things that can increase sexual appetite. Information about sex is wrong also disturb the atmosphere. As a result, adolescents tend to want to try and end up falling prey to free sex.
2) Weak Faith
Almost all, if not to say all, free sex, will know the burden of sin they receive. But somehow, for them it was 'dibelakangkan' and make
lust as the leader. This shows the weakness of a sense of their faith.
3) The absence of proper sex education, appropriate and based on religious values.
4) Lack of parental supervision.
5) Wrong in choosing friends
2.3 The Result Of Free Sex
Adolescent knowledge on the effects of free sex is still very low. The most prominent of these free sexual activity is the increasing number of unwanted pregnancies. Every year there are approximately 2.3 million abortion cases in Indonesia where 20 percent do adolescents. In America, 1 in 2 marriages result in divorce, 1 in 2 children the results of adultery, 75% contain girl out of wedlock, every day there 1.5 million sex with prostitutes. In the UK 3 of 4 children the results of adultery, 1 in 3 pregnancies end in abortion, and since 1996 sepilis disease increased by 486%. In France, increased by 170% gonorhoe disease within one year. In liberal countries, prostitution, gay / lesbian, and incest is common even become a profitable industry hundreds of millions of U.S. dollars and authorized by law.
Sex outside of marriage brings considerable negative impact on self-actors as well as the surrounding environment. Starting from the possibility of contracting the disease, up to pregnancy outside marriage.
This also causes / impact the high rates of abortion. Where as acts of abortion, also has a very high risk to the safety of the woman themselves. Here are the risks and dangers that occur when a teen abortion in particular :
1) Death due to too much bleeding
2) Sudden death due to anesthesia who failed
3) Death by slow due to a serious infection around the womb.
4) Uterine Perforation
5) Damage to the cervix (Cervical Lacerations) that would cause defects in the subsequent child.
6) Breast cancer (because of hormonal imbalance of estrogen in women)
7) Ovarian Cancer (Ovarian Cancer)
8) Cervical cancer (Cervical Cancer)
9) Liver cancer (Liver Cancer)
10) Abnormalities in the placenta / placenta (Placenta Previa) which will cause defects in the next child and severe bleeding during subsequent pregnancies.
11) Pelvic infection (Pelvic Inflammatory Disease)
12) Being infertile / unable to have children again (ectopic Pregnancy)
13) Infection of the lining of the uterus (endometriosis)
14) Infection of reproductive organs due to perform curettage (medically), which is conducted not sterile. This makes adolescents experiencing infertility in the future after marriage.
15) Bleeding so that teens can experience the shock due to bleeding and neurological disorders. In addition, bleeding also can result in death of mother or child or both.
16) The risk of rupture uterus or womb reptur larger and depletion due to curettage of the uterine lining. Infertility due to uterine rupture, the risk of infection, the risk of shock to the risk of maternal mortality and child she is carrying.
17) The occurrence of genital traumatic fistula is a channel or a relationship between genital and urinary or digestive tract that normally does not exist.
In other imfact, free sex can to affect physical, psychological, and other.
1) Physical Impact
Teens who had sex of course have the possibility to get pregnant despite using contraception. Each method must have a percentage of failure. Even teenagers who regularly consume. Though he will not get pregnant, if she could not guarantee anything will happen in the future. Venereal diseases such as syphilis and AIDS and gonorhoe rampant now probably going to infect them.
2) Psychological Impact
Many young people think if they had sex while dating, this will bring them to one another. However, reality says another! This is very disappointing, there is no sense of joy or warmth of the love that originally suspected. They will look at one another with a different feeling than before. The girl might have looked less attractive and the man’s feelings towards the girl will not be burning. While the girl may feel exploited or even denigrated. A pair of teenagers who have sex before marriage has indeed crossed the line beyond which they could not come back. Usually a pair of lovers who have had premarital sexual relations dive percentage large enough to split. This is caused by suspicion, distrust and jealousy develop in the liver.
3) Other Impacts
a. Creating a bad memory. If someone proved to have premarital sex or sex are morally free then haunted by guilt actors protracted. Perpetrator was a large family to share the shame that it becomes a heavy mental burden.
b. Result in pregnancy. Having sex just once can result in pregnancy when performed in the fertile period. pregnancies that occur due to free sex into extraordinary mental burden. Pregnancy is considered “accidents” has resulted in hardship and havoc for the players and even their offspring.
c. Content abort (abortion) and infanticide. Abortion is a medical act that is illegal and unlawful. Abortion Rahim cause infertility and even cancer. Abort content with the way abortion is not safe, because it can lead to death.
e. Will there arise a sense of addiction to continue having sex.
f. Pregnancy occurs if there is meeting the woman’s egg and the male sperm. And it is usually preceded by sexual intercourse.
Pregnancy in adolescents is often caused by ignorance and not conscious of the process of adolescent pregnancy. Dangers of pregnancy in adolescents:
a) The destruction of the future of these teens.
b) Adolescent women who already are pregnant will have difficulties during pregnancy because of mental.
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